Friday, November 11, 2011
Destiny/ Fate
Friday, July 22, 2011
07) JoJo - My Time Is Money + Download Link
I was listening to this song from Jojo’s mixtape she made in 2010.The song is called “My Time Is Money”. The lyrics are very dynamic to what stage I’m at in life. I had tunnel vision a majority of my life when I could have been having fun. I chose to be smart and see the big picture. I got off course but now I’m back to my old self and its good to be home again. As far as, the man scenario goes completely agree with this song when she says "I need a man not a boy ". Someone who’s not afraid to say want he wants which is “Me”! Don’t have time to wait on timid little boys who are to scared to open their mouths. Nothing but a waste of time not trying to run it out on them.Too busy getting what I want and need in my life to delay it on nonsense. So be on your P’s & Q’s when you step in my direction. Not holding spots, or giving out any benefits unless you can prove your worthy of the title.
Friday, July 15, 2011
Who's Most Likely To Cheat? Men or Women
April 9, 2009
Social Psychology
Research Project
Hypothesis: Men and women our equal when it comes to being unfaithful to their partners, but the reasons for being unfaithful are different among genders.
Men cheat on their partners because the opportunity presents itself to them, and women cheat based on their emotions.
The Research Method: Correlational Research
I made a survey about who cheats more in a relationship. The survey consist of 21 detailed questions on relationship statuses and current or previous history with cheating partners. I surveyed 26 people on the campus of Lane College, and the results were the majority of men and women agreed women cheated the most in a relationship.
Survey Results are:
Single Men between the ages of 18-22 that have been in committed relationships disagree that an open relationships last longer than committed relationships.
3 out of 11 single men had an average sex drive, lost their virginity between 14-16 years old, and cheated in their previous relationships. 4 out of 11 single men said they
cheated strictly because the opportunity presented itself or they were emotional dissatisfied. 6 out of 11 single men said women cheat more than men.
Men in relationships between the ages of 19-23 say they haven’t cheated in their previous or current relationships, and they believe women cheat more than men.
Single Women between the ages of 18-22 had an open relationship with their partner, and they didn’t cheat in their previous current relationships. The majority of single women admitted that they believe committed relationships last longer, but they have extreme highs and lows of interest while in a committed relationship. The majority of single women had average sex drives.
The findings for women in committed relationships between the ages of 18-20
is that they cheated on their partners and the reason was emotional dissatisfaction,and they experience extreme highs and lows while in a committed relationship. The majority of the women had a high sex drive.
Through my research I have discovered that women are more unfaithful than men, which proved that part of my hypothesis was wrong, but the reasoning proved to be valid.
A guy's MO is usually sex, while women tend to do it to fulfill emotional needs. The reasons men and women cheat are set up in different categories with only a few similarities.
Reasons Why Women Cheat:
It used to be that guys were more likely to be the unfaithful ones in relationships. But these days, women are catching up--an increasing number of chicks are guilty of having sex on the side, according to couples therapists. Further proof: In a large Cosmo poll, 80 percent of women admitted to cheating on their significant others.
Why the rise in two-timing females? A lot of girls are ambivalent about their boyfriends--they want to make sure they find The Right One, so they explore to see if there's anyone better than who they're with. And technology--cell phones, the Internet--has made it easier to pull it off without getting caught. To better understand this trend, Cosmo convinced fidelity-challenged women to confess all the scandalous details.
WHY THEY DID IT:
* "My guy was so busy at work that he had to cancel our dates a lot. He felt bad blowing me off, so when he couldn't make it, he'd have his best friend take me instead--a stupid move on his part. I already felt neglected because he put his job before me, and his friend was so nice and attentive. Not surprisingly, we started sleeping together."--Roxy, 28
* "I cheat whenever my boyfriend does something to piss me off, like sitting on the couch watching football all day. Then I'll go out with my friends and make it a goal to hook up."--Vera, 22
* "Because he forgot my birthday."--Penny, 22
* "My boyfriend, Patrick, cheated on me once, and I never totally forgave him. So when I ran into a guy I'd had a crush on in college at a party and he admitted he liked me, I went with my gut and hooked up with him. I'm sure it was to get back at Patrick."--Kate, 30
WHAT HOOKING UP WAS LIKE
* "The sex was in a different league--animalistic and raw. We couldn't keep our hands off each other. It reinforced to me how sexually dissatisfied I was in my relationship."--Madge, 27
* "Doing it with Rob was freakin' incredible. When he touched me, it felt like a wave crashing over me, and I literally lost control of my body. But immediately after I climaxed, this powerful guilt set in."--Jane, 27
* "What I liked about the sex was that I'd had a legitimate reason to put on a dramatic show of resisting--'We really shouldn't. I have a boyfriend ... but you're so hot...but we really shouldn't....' We hung in this delicious limbo for hours. You can't get away with that kind of stuff with your boyfriend--he just wants to get down to business."--Roberta, 33
* "The second we kissed, I knew I had made a horrible mistake. But that second was one of the most erotic moments of my life."--Violet, 25
* "Having new sexual territory to explore was a rush, but I also felt kind of uncomfortable. In the middle of hooking up, my guy's face would pop into my mind and ruin it."--Kiki, 24
HOW THEY COVERED THEIR TAILS
"My boyfriend was getting something out of my handbag and asked me why I had condoms in there because I'm on the Pill. I told him they were giving them away at school, so I grabbed a bunch for my roommates."--Jan, 22
* "I said I joined the Big Sister club, and we had a lot of late meetings. Hey, if I'm going to lie, I might as well make him think I'm highly moral."--Sabina, 26
THE EMOTIONAL AFTERMATH:
* "I actually started falling in love with the guy I was screwing around with, but he wasn't interested in me for anything but sex. Turned out, he didn't think I'd make a very good girlfriend!"--Fran, 24
* "It was liberating. I proved to myself I didn't have to stand for guys who treated me badly, like my boyfriend, since I could get other men."--Eva, 29
THE DANGER ZONE
This chart was made up by the Cosmo Magazine. Its basically suppose to help women define if they’re going to far with another guy while their in a relationship. It says yes, coupled-up girls can hang with other guys ... as long as they consult this chart for behavioral guidelines first.
TOTALLY FINE PUSHING IT CROSSING THE LINE
Checking out a sexy Flirting with him Grinding with him on
man the dance floor
Happy hour with your Happy hour at his Happy hour ... with a
male coworker place happy ending
Swapping Swapping numbers Swapping saliva
introductions with
a hottie
Embracing one of your Giving him a quick Resting your head on
guy buddies, whom you peck on the lips his shoulder as he
haven't seen in a caresses your back
while
Letting a male friend Allowing him to pay Wearing fancy jewelry
buy you a drink at for your dinner he gave you
the bar
Complimenting a guy's Admiring his physique Grabbing his butt
great haircut
7 Reasons Men Cheat
By Tom Milnes
There are numerous reasons why men may endanger a relationship by cheating — if you catch a guy in a confessional mood here are a few you may hear:
1. Fear of commitment
"I had been dating Michelle for about four months when the invitation to her Dad's party arrived. I guess we were an item, but it was freaky becoming a 'plus one' overnight. Maybe that's why I hooked up with my buddy's cousin, I don't know. She was pretty, from out of town and understood this was a one-time thing ... I never did make it to that party."
— Victor, Scottsdale, Ariz.
2. For the thrill of it
"Every year I'm responsible for an intern. Usually it is some clingy, overachieving geek, but this year I scored. A redheaded beauty, she knew she was the bee's knees and enjoyed watching me drool. It was risky and I didn't get much work done, but my girlfriend knows my work comes first."
— Roger, Atlanta, Ga.
3. He is not fulfilled
"My ex, Brenda and I started out sharing late nights, long talks and make out sessions at the pub. It was beautiful, but it faded quickly. Now I'm lucky to get her off the couch. And physical intimacy? Well, forget about it. I think it was a return to those early days I was looking for that Saturday night I found myself at the pub by myself and on the prowl. I didn't leave alone, but I sure feel that way now."
— TJ, San Francisco, Calif.
4. Sabotage
"Sandie and I always seemed mismatched, but between my waffling and her crying I could never quite end it with her. It got so bad that eventually I started to resent her. I had to do something. I know it wasn't right, but one night I hit on a friend of hers and well, something happened. It wasn't the best way to end a relationship but at least it's done."
— Drew, Dallas, Texas
5. Revenge
"I love parties and I wasn't about to miss another just because my girlfriend doesn't — so I went stag. Sure, there were some real hotties there and a little innocent flirting on my part, but that's all. But that wasn't good enough for Gina. She was sure I had cheated, and holds it over my head to this day. Well, let her think what she wants. She's got a past, too. There will be other parties and maybe next time I won't be so innocent."
— Alex, Buffalo, N.Y.
6. Because you let him
"Yeah I admit it. I am a little bit of a dog when it comes to the ladies. Even though I consider Angela my girlfriend, there have been other women. I'm not saying that she thinks it was okay, but she did catch me once and after a little groveling and some flowers she took me right back. A man's got his needs. I think she knows that."
— Paul, Pasadena, Calif.
7. Emotional escape
"The week before I left for my trip, Heather and I got into another doozy. I love her and all, but no matter what I say she always ends up nagging me. I'm just tired of it. I travel a lot and I've got way too much invested in the relationship to break it off, so I have just decided to mix business with pleasure. What she doesn't know won't hurt her and I really need a break now and then."
— Sean, Chicago, Ill.
Warm Weather:
Summer is cheat season the time of year when people are most likely to sneak around on their partners. And though chicks do their fair share of cheating, guys are more prone to being summertime two-timers because they're more likely to stray in general, says New York City therapist Diana Kirschner, PhD, author of the forthcoming Love in 90 Days.
Reasons Men Two-Time During Summer:
Remember when you were a kid and summer meant no school, freedom, and fun? Well, that attitude carries over into adulthood, leaving us with the sense that during these months, the usual rules don't apply "Some men take this to mean that it's okay to cheat once the hot weather rolls around," explains Daniel Kruger, PhD, evolutionary psychologist at the University of Michigan at Ann Arbor. "They think, Oh, it's just a summer fling, as if normal couple behavior is on hiatus."
That same outlook also makes people associate the summer with adventure. "Now is the time when you're more apt to try something new, and any novelty increases your body's production of dopamine, which triggers the release of testosterone--two chemicals associated with energy, elation, and sex," explains Helen Fisher, PhD, author of Why We Love. Translation: A guy may seek sexually charged situations and could give in if tempted.
People are also simply way more social in fire summer. Balmy weather puts us in a happier, more gregarious frame of mind, drawing us together via lots of social events--like outdoor dining, backyard parties, and group trips to the beach. "With more. people in a friendly, even flirty, mood coming out to socialize, there's a larger market of women to mingle with and, thus, increased chances for a man to be unfaithful," says Kruger.
And its obvious: When the temperature goes up, clothes come off. Since guys are so easily turned on by all the female skin they see poking out of sundresses, tank tops, and short shorts on the street and at work, they're in a constant state of heightened desire. As a result, it may be easier for them to submit to lust should an opportunity arise.
The Healing Process:
According to the article bases directory nearly 20% of all marriages seem to involve affairs and infidelity. Dealing with it afterwards is always the hardest part once the person has learned the truth and now wants to know all about it.
Whatever the reason is, if an affair has taken place and both sides now know the truth, then it is time to begin the healing process. It is not a pleasant process at all, but a growing process. Both sides must commit to resolving the issues which caused such infidelity to occur and let the healing begin. You shouldn’t automatically forgive them for having an affair, but those who don’t want to end their long history with their spouse and feel they can forgive that ok. But they still have to work out those issues that caused your spouse to cheat. If not denial comes forth and its not healthy for either person involved. The cheater has to roll with the punches of how their partner feels then try not to be angry and spiteful and look more towards finding the solution through first contacting a counselor in the area. This will begin the process of bringing to the surface those things which really make the difference between you and your loved one and begin the path of healing.
Social Psychology
Hypothesis: Men and women our equal when it comes to being unfaithful to their partners, but the reasons for being unfaithful are different among genders.
Men cheat on their partners because the opportunity presents itself to them, and women cheat based on their emotions.
The Research Method: Correlational Research
I made a survey about who cheats more in a relationship. The survey consist of 21 detailed questions on relationship statuses and current or previous history with cheating partners. I surveyed 26 people on the campus of Lane College, and the results were the majority of men and women agreed women cheated the most in a relationship.
Survey Results are:
Single Men between the ages of 18-22 that have been in committed relationships disagree that an open relationships last longer than committed relationships.
3 out of 11 single men had an average sex drive, lost their virginity between 14-16 years old, and cheated in their previous relationships. 4 out of 11 single men said they
cheated strictly because the opportunity presented itself or they were emotional dissatisfied. 6 out of 11 single men said women cheat more than men.
Men in relationships between the ages of 19-23 say they haven’t cheated in their previous or current relationships, and they believe women cheat more than men.
Single Women between the ages of 18-22 had an open relationship with their partner, and they didn’t cheat in their previous current relationships. The majority of single women admitted that they believe committed relationships last longer, but they have extreme highs and lows of interest while in a committed relationship. The majority of single women had average sex drives.
The findings for women in committed relationships between the ages of 18-20
is that they cheated on their partners and the reason was emotional dissatisfaction,and they experience extreme highs and lows while in a committed relationship. The majority of the women had a high sex drive.
Through my research I have discovered that women are more unfaithful than men, which proved that part of my hypothesis was wrong, but the reasoning proved to be valid.
A guy's MO is usually sex, while women tend to do it to fulfill emotional needs. The reasons men and women cheat are set up in different categories with only a few similarities.
Reasons Why Women Cheat:
It used to be that guys were more likely to be the unfaithful ones in relationships. But these days, women are catching up--an increasing number of chicks are guilty of having sex on the side, according to couples therapists. Further proof: In a large Cosmo poll, 80 percent of women admitted to cheating on their significant others.
Why the rise in two-timing females? A lot of girls are ambivalent about their boyfriends--they want to make sure they find The Right One, so they explore to see if there's anyone better than who they're with. And technology--cell phones, the Internet--has made it easier to pull it off without getting caught. To better understand this trend, Cosmo convinced fidelity-challenged women to confess all the scandalous details.
WHY THEY DID IT:
* "My guy was so busy at work that he had to cancel our dates a lot. He felt bad blowing me off, so when he couldn't make it, he'd have his best friend take me instead--a stupid move on his part. I already felt neglected because he put his job before me, and his friend was so nice and attentive. Not surprisingly, we started sleeping together."--Roxy, 28
* "I cheat whenever my boyfriend does something to piss me off, like sitting on the couch watching football all day. Then I'll go out with my friends and make it a goal to hook up."--Vera, 22
* "Because he forgot my birthday."--Penny, 22
* "My boyfriend, Patrick, cheated on me once, and I never totally forgave him. So when I ran into a guy I'd had a crush on in college at a party and he admitted he liked me, I went with my gut and hooked up with him. I'm sure it was to get back at Patrick."--Kate, 30
WHAT HOOKING UP WAS LIKE
* "The sex was in a different league--animalistic and raw. We couldn't keep our hands off each other. It reinforced to me how sexually dissatisfied I was in my relationship."--Madge, 27
* "Doing it with Rob was freakin' incredible. When he touched me, it felt like a wave crashing over me, and I literally lost control of my body. But immediately after I climaxed, this powerful guilt set in."--Jane, 27
* "What I liked about the sex was that I'd had a legitimate reason to put on a dramatic show of resisting--'We really shouldn't. I have a boyfriend ... but you're so hot...but we really shouldn't....' We hung in this delicious limbo for hours. You can't get away with that kind of stuff with your boyfriend--he just wants to get down to business."--Roberta, 33
* "The second we kissed, I knew I had made a horrible mistake. But that second was one of the most erotic moments of my life."--Violet, 25
* "Having new sexual territory to explore was a rush, but I also felt kind of uncomfortable. In the middle of hooking up, my guy's face would pop into my mind and ruin it."--Kiki, 24
HOW THEY COVERED THEIR TAILS
"My boyfriend was getting something out of my handbag and asked me why I had condoms in there because I'm on the Pill. I told him they were giving them away at school, so I grabbed a bunch for my roommates."--Jan, 22
* "I said I joined the Big Sister club, and we had a lot of late meetings. Hey, if I'm going to lie, I might as well make him think I'm highly moral."--Sabina, 26
THE EMOTIONAL AFTERMATH:
* "I actually started falling in love with the guy I was screwing around with, but he wasn't interested in me for anything but sex. Turned out, he didn't think I'd make a very good girlfriend!"--Fran, 24
* "It was liberating. I proved to myself I didn't have to stand for guys who treated me badly, like my boyfriend, since I could get other men."--Eva, 29
THE DANGER ZONE
This chart was made up by the Cosmo Magazine. Its basically suppose to help women define if they’re going to far with another guy while their in a relationship. It says yes, coupled-up girls can hang with other guys ... as long as they consult this chart for behavioral guidelines first.
TOTALLY FINE PUSHING IT CROSSING THE LINE
Checking out a sexy Flirting with him Grinding with him on
man the dance floor
Happy hour with your Happy hour at his Happy hour ... with a
male coworker place happy ending
Swapping Swapping numbers Swapping saliva
introductions with
a hottie
Embracing one of your Giving him a quick Resting your head on
guy buddies, whom you peck on the lips his shoulder as he
haven't seen in a caresses your back
while
Letting a male friend Allowing him to pay Wearing fancy jewelry
buy you a drink at for your dinner he gave you
the bar
Complimenting a guy's Admiring his physique Grabbing his butt
great haircut
7 Reasons Men Cheat
By Tom Milnes
There are numerous reasons why men may endanger a relationship by cheating — if you catch a guy in a confessional mood here are a few you may hear:
1. Fear of commitment
"I had been dating Michelle for about four months when the invitation to her Dad's party arrived. I guess we were an item, but it was freaky becoming a 'plus one' overnight. Maybe that's why I hooked up with my buddy's cousin, I don't know. She was pretty, from out of town and understood this was a one-time thing ... I never did make it to that party."
— Victor, Scottsdale, Ariz.
2. For the thrill of it
"Every year I'm responsible for an intern. Usually it is some clingy, overachieving geek, but this year I scored. A redheaded beauty, she knew she was the bee's knees and enjoyed watching me drool. It was risky and I didn't get much work done, but my girlfriend knows my work comes first."
— Roger, Atlanta, Ga.
3. He is not fulfilled
"My ex, Brenda and I started out sharing late nights, long talks and make out sessions at the pub. It was beautiful, but it faded quickly. Now I'm lucky to get her off the couch. And physical intimacy? Well, forget about it. I think it was a return to those early days I was looking for that Saturday night I found myself at the pub by myself and on the prowl. I didn't leave alone, but I sure feel that way now."
— TJ, San Francisco, Calif.
4. Sabotage
"Sandie and I always seemed mismatched, but between my waffling and her crying I could never quite end it with her. It got so bad that eventually I started to resent her. I had to do something. I know it wasn't right, but one night I hit on a friend of hers and well, something happened. It wasn't the best way to end a relationship but at least it's done."
— Drew, Dallas, Texas
5. Revenge
"I love parties and I wasn't about to miss another just because my girlfriend doesn't — so I went stag. Sure, there were some real hotties there and a little innocent flirting on my part, but that's all. But that wasn't good enough for Gina. She was sure I had cheated, and holds it over my head to this day. Well, let her think what she wants. She's got a past, too. There will be other parties and maybe next time I won't be so innocent."
— Alex, Buffalo, N.Y.
6. Because you let him
"Yeah I admit it. I am a little bit of a dog when it comes to the ladies. Even though I consider Angela my girlfriend, there have been other women. I'm not saying that she thinks it was okay, but she did catch me once and after a little groveling and some flowers she took me right back. A man's got his needs. I think she knows that."
— Paul, Pasadena, Calif.
7. Emotional escape
"The week before I left for my trip, Heather and I got into another doozy. I love her and all, but no matter what I say she always ends up nagging me. I'm just tired of it. I travel a lot and I've got way too much invested in the relationship to break it off, so I have just decided to mix business with pleasure. What she doesn't know won't hurt her and I really need a break now and then."
— Sean, Chicago, Ill.
Warm Weather:
Summer is cheat season the time of year when people are most likely to sneak around on their partners. And though chicks do their fair share of cheating, guys are more prone to being summertime two-timers because they're more likely to stray in general, says New York City therapist Diana Kirschner, PhD, author of the forthcoming Love in 90 Days.
Reasons Men Two-Time During Summer:
Remember when you were a kid and summer meant no school, freedom, and fun? Well, that attitude carries over into adulthood, leaving us with the sense that during these months, the usual rules don't apply "Some men take this to mean that it's okay to cheat once the hot weather rolls around," explains Daniel Kruger, PhD, evolutionary psychologist at the University of Michigan at Ann Arbor. "They think, Oh, it's just a summer fling, as if normal couple behavior is on hiatus."
That same outlook also makes people associate the summer with adventure. "Now is the time when you're more apt to try something new, and any novelty increases your body's production of dopamine, which triggers the release of testosterone--two chemicals associated with energy, elation, and sex," explains Helen Fisher, PhD, author of Why We Love. Translation: A guy may seek sexually charged situations and could give in if tempted.
People are also simply way more social in fire summer. Balmy weather puts us in a happier, more gregarious frame of mind, drawing us together via lots of social events--like outdoor dining, backyard parties, and group trips to the beach. "With more. people in a friendly, even flirty, mood coming out to socialize, there's a larger market of women to mingle with and, thus, increased chances for a man to be unfaithful," says Kruger.
And its obvious: When the temperature goes up, clothes come off. Since guys are so easily turned on by all the female skin they see poking out of sundresses, tank tops, and short shorts on the street and at work, they're in a constant state of heightened desire. As a result, it may be easier for them to submit to lust should an opportunity arise.
The Healing Process:
According to the article bases directory nearly 20% of all marriages seem to involve affairs and infidelity. Dealing with it afterwards is always the hardest part once the person has learned the truth and now wants to know all about it.
Whatever the reason is, if an affair has taken place and both sides now know the truth, then it is time to begin the healing process. It is not a pleasant process at all, but a growing process. Both sides must commit to resolving the issues which caused such infidelity to occur and let the healing begin. You shouldn’t automatically forgive them for having an affair, but those who don’t want to end their long history with their spouse and feel they can forgive that ok. But they still have to work out those issues that caused your spouse to cheat. If not denial comes forth and its not healthy for either person involved. The cheater has to roll with the punches of how their partner feels then try not to be angry and spiteful and look more towards finding the solution through first contacting a counselor in the area. This will begin the process of bringing to the surface those things which really make the difference between you and your loved one and begin the path of healing.
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Daily Affirmations
I TAKE EACH DAY TO MEDITATE **
A few minutes each day spent in silence,
focused on your purposeful,deep breathing
will clear the clutter from your mind and
purify and energize you for another
challenging day here in the Now Age..
http://www.mylifetime.com/astrology/free-readings/enchanted/daily-affirmations
I wanted to share my daily affirmation today. You can find your daily affirmation at the link above. Just copy and paste the link in your search engine. Enjoy!
Friday, July 1, 2011
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Tarot Card Readings
wanted to share the following 3-Card Tarot Card Reading with you:
Current Situation
The Queen of Wands represents a passionate and aggressive woman who champions those she loves. The fact that this card is showing up in this position means you are having difficulty supporting others right now. You care about the people in your life, that’s for sure. You’re just scared of confrontation or afraid of being regarded as too aggressive or obnoxious. Whatever the case, you’re not standing up and fighting for the people who need you.
Actions to Take
The Nine of Disks represents creative and financial fruition, a time of reaping. The fact that this card is showing up in this position means abundance is all around you right now, and you need to take and enjoy what’s yours. It’s just a matter of grabbing it. It’s not about being greedy; it’s about receiving what you’re worth and celebrating your hard work. Open your arms with gratitude and let yourself (or your bank account) be filled with prosperity.
Expected Outcome
The Page of Cups gets extremely emotionally attached to practically everyone he encounters, which usually leaves him heartbroken. He keeps offering his heart, though, over and over. The fact that this card is showing up in this position means you will end up heartbroken, which, ironically, is a victory, because it means you actually opened your heart. You risked vulnerability. Eventually you’ll come to love and appreciate this about yourself.
Check out myLifetime Tarot.
http://www.mylifetime.com/astrology/tarot-cards.
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Mariah Carey - It's a wrap (lyrics on screen)
This is a classic story of a woman being feed up with the wrong doings of her lover. Coming in the wee hours of the morning been out all night without calling and not answering calls. What would a man want us to do just pretend? When the evidence is right in our face. Mariah Carey said it best when she said "Its A Wrap".
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Career Scramble
I’ve been going on job hunts and not to my surprise I’ve been running on empty. Interview after interview either no call backs or it just wasn’t the job I was looking for. Doesn’t mean I’m going to give up because this is just a life test. My grandmother told me best, nothing beats a failure but a try, and as long as I keep trying victory will be mine. As long as I’m in the game they will never win. It takes time and patience for a person to achieve great things it won’t happen over night. I tried a sales manager at a radio station and I didn’t like it from the beginning, but I needed to put my foot into the door right out of college. A true mass communications major at heart I found a way to be heard and express my creative side. By interacting with people expressing my ideas for improvement and persuading clients to take a chance on advertising with us. But that wonderful connection I had didn’t last forever I needed to move on to grow financially. No matter what is said commission based jobs really suck! I appreciated the things I learned however , but it just wasn’t for me.Sometimes it may feel like I'm going around in circles. I've obtained many jobs since then but nothing has truly captured my interest enough to satisfy me or my earned degree. There is so much more for me to accomplish and I don’t want anything or anyone holding me back. I know a lot of people are struggling to find a career or a job that they went to school for. It’s a true blessing to do something you love and have the privilege to get paid for your services. So, with this I say continue to fight for what you want no matter how bleak circumstances appear. It is a basic human right for us to be happy, and you should do whatever it takes to be just that.
Monday, June 13, 2011
Decisions Decisions ...
Rhetorical question: Say you’re best friends with a female and guy friend that are in a relationship together. One of them started cheating on the other. Are you obligated to tell your friend he or she is being cheated on or keep your mouth shut? And how would you decide? What reason would you have for making that decision? Would it matter to you what friend was being cheated on? Does gender matter when it comes to cheating? You know the cliche "Bros before ****". You can fill in the blanks and let me know what you think.
Here are some comments from other readers:
Davis Greg-
Wow thats deep, lets see... I think everything eventually comes to the light, that could backfire on you, all you did was try to be a goodfriend, so the one who cheated may hate you for telling and the other may be thankful.. So you lose a friend or they could both hate you, it just depends on the calibur of person they are.... If its someone understanding maybe, but you have to weigh your options.... Seriously
Alonzo Tillman-
You're Not Obligated But You Are However In Middle. Discuss The Situation With the Whos Cheating. Let them Know How You Feel. There's Not Really a Decision Just An Un-Concluded Situation That You Will Have To Let play Out.
Jr Butts-
Pretend like dont know.
Vilesia Smith-
Something deep inside of me says yes tell them if they are your best friend then you should not hesitate to tell them. I've never been in this situation before so its hard to say.
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Meditation Study
Hey everyone, this is a knew project. I’m working on the true effects of Mediation.
I want to get into the spiritual aspects as well as the scientific aspects of mediation.
How it works on the body and the mind. Does it truly give us a positive mind and outlook tapping into the core of our spirit, or is it just a false sense of comfort and security having no effect on our bodies, our mind, or our health. I will pick a few people and ask them to do this study for a few weeks asking them a series of questions.Then I will continue to monitor them for the next couple of weeks to see if there is any change.I will post the results of my study by the beginning of July. I will also, post updates with the study for the following weeks to come.
So, come back on June 15th to get the first result.
Thanks, for stopping by again.
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Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Betcha Gon Know - Mariah Carey
This is a message to all those who have been the one to always be rational and not jump the gun on any situation. What would you do if you were in the same situation? How would you react if the person you were sharing your life with did something so reckless, careless, hurtful to you. What would you do? Follow in Mariah's foot steps an unleash your wrath upon them or let it go and cut your loses?
Second Chances/ Unleashed
Second chances is there a point to it? Or should the past just be exactly that. I use to believe that if things were meant to be it would happen either at the present time or the future. Now, I’m not so sure. What is the cutting point of receiving or lending out another chance for a person or someone’s dream to flourish. Is it within our power to have the last say or does a higher power choose it for us? We may never really know, but I have decided to do something about it. I’ve been in a inner battle with the good girl(wants to give people the benefit of the doubt) this girl is optimistic and trusting to those she feels have earned her trust in the past. Bad girl (Could care less about how you feel) If you trying to get over on her you would seriously regret it. She can be vengeful and a flat out B**** “A Hellish Fire Seeking Mussel”. Locked on a human target ready to explode on contact.
Not sure which one is going to win out, but I’ll make certain to inform you on the conclusion to this vast dilemma. These girls come out in different situations sometimes its hard to say when it’s appropriate to unleash them. One may think that it’s never a good time to let out your bad side, but its not healthy to let it stew inside you for too long. Otherwise, when that side does show it will become uncontrollable and reek havoc on any by-stander in the way of the main source of your anger. If you have any stories on whether you had an impulsive reaction or purposely unleash the “dungeon dragon” within you. So, if your not ashamed or just want to give some good advice please share your thoughts with me.
H.A.T.E. U. by Mariah Carey with LYRICS 2010
I really enjoy listening to this song the lyrics are incredible. If I could ever take credit for a written work this would be it. Wish I would have thought of it first! So, please listen to it I promise you won't be disappointed and if so your not a human being. Everyone can relate to this song.
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