Relationships: Hot or Not

Ladies we have come a long way from being told that we are only made for baby making , taking care of a family, and staying home instead of working. Women are more aggressive then ever in the year 2012. We have more drive to have more, do more, and be more. Not only to prove it to our family, friends, or society but for ourselves. Some females believe that they have to find themselves through a man. Not, the women of today. So, that leaves the question are relationships hot or not? If I took a poll of women to answer this question. How would you think they would respond? You’d be surprised how many would say its not at this time in their lives. Being single isn’t the worst thing in the world for a woman. Living her life through a man just might be. I’m not apposed to a man and a women being in a committed relationship. As long as both people are living out their dreams together it’ll be a beautiful union. You also have to have open communication with that person. Be comfortable enough that you can go to them about anything. If you can’t talk to them and open up then your just wasting your time. Communication is always a deal breaker with any relationship. Whether it’s with the opposite sex, friends or family without it a relationship can die quickly. In a race to find ourselves, sometimes we don’t want to fully commit to the opposite sex. Not to say we never want to get married or be with someone seriously. We want to have fun every once in awhile on the rise to further our education, get a job, advance in our career, be financial independent, and know we did it on our own.

We all need support sooner or later in our lives, and we want to be able to support our significant others. Relationships are hard to maintain because eventually the honeymoon stage will come to an end. Then the real work begins, and not everyone is up for the challenge. If your not up to the challenge. I suggest you don’t enter into one until you are.